Nobody chooses to be an addict

Philip Seymour Hoffman died at age 46. The same age I will be in 4 months time.

The fact that he is dead is tragic. The cause of his death even more so.  While I cannot speculate on his life and how he lived it I do know that nobody chooses to be an addict. No one picks up their first drink or their first drug with the intention of becoming an alcoholic or an addict.

Just because you are rich and you have all the trappings of that wealth it doesn’t preclude you from being human, from being scared or anxious, from feeling pain or emotion.  Just because you are famous it doesn’t mean you don’t have self doubt and think too much or care too deeply, just because you have minders and entourages it doesn’t mean you don’t get lonely or feel isolated.

Just because you have children it does not mean you are not human. Just because you use drugs does not mean you are a junkie.

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(With thanks to Zoey Martin at The Shake where I was first rocked by this video)

Rest in Peace Philip Seymour Hoffman and may your family find strength at this horrifically dark time.

Comments

  1. Well said, Lana.

  2. Of course! And I think famous people have added pressures on them that we cannot imagine. Living their lives in the public eye. Going through insecurities and relationship breakups and career failures and disappointments with the whole world watching.
    RIP PSH. A terrible loss for us and for his family.

  3. A lovely post and tribute, Lana. It’s always shocking when someone relatively young and famous dies, suddenly. It makes you realise that despite immense success and wealth, one isn’t immune from tragedy, from life. It forces you to think of your own mortality with empathy and compassion.

  4. Great words Lana. I was so saddened to read some of the things being said today. Like someone’s entire life could be summed up, defined and confined by one characteristic or struggle. To hear people say why do we care? Just another junkie. Well I care. Everybody’s life is worth far more than that. You don’t lose your humanity when you fight addiction, but sometimes it seems that people who pass judgement on addicts do.

    In his life, Hoffman probably fought with his addiction many times. Tragically, he lost this battle. If people must remember his addiction, they should remember that he had the strength to fight it.

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